DAD - Most Important 3 Letter Word
I wanted to give a shout out to all the Dad’s out there. Happy Daddy’s Day (as we refer to it here at our household).
Being a Dad to me is the greatest thing and I am sure all the dads out there would agree. I have a son, who is now 4 1/2 years old. There was a bond between us the day I knew it was a boy. I cried like a baby. I am the IV, and knowing that I was going to have Charles Hudson Rothschild V changed my world.
One of my favorite parts of being a dad is the moment I walk in the door from being out. No matter what kind of day I have had, he can change it in an instant. The pure excitement he has when he hears me shut the door. I hear the scampering of feet across the wood floor, and the smile on his face when he comes to greet me with a big hug and kiss. EVERY TIME, no matter what.
I am very blessed. I am a huge sports lover and my son is following suit. He loves quality time with his dad. He just wants to do it to be with his dad. He will come up to me and tell me he needs some “daddy time”. A lot of people think if they can just buy their kids things and that captures parenting. To me, there is a big difference in buying a ball and PLAYING ball. As a former golf professional, I only play a couple of times a year right now and people always ask me why I dont play more. I respond ” I would rather be a good dad, than golfer”.
What is really going to be great, is if Hudson loves golf. We go to the golf course all the time and I watch him hit balls. He crushes the ball. His favorite part is trying to hit it in the sand. He considers that accomplishment. I am a year a two away from us doing it together. I promised myself, I would not push him into any sport though. I would introduce him to all of them and let him pick which one he liked best and I would love it too. He really likes all sports right now, basketball, baseball, golf & soccer. I have coached him in all of them and really got as much enjoyment as he seems to have.
I just want to challenge all the dads out there to:
D - evoted - Let your kids know there is NOTHING more important than them. I heard some great advice from a friend. When you put something on family calendar, it cant be changed. All other appt’s are changeable. Nothing can come before them. That is a challenge for me as well, because I am internally driven and something I work on all the time. So keep that top of mind.
A- ctive - As I said, get involved. PARTICIPATE. Whatever there interest is, make that your interest to. Most men are kids anyway. Get out there and play in the mud, wrestle with them, play ball with them, play games, take a walk. Anything. This one is my favorite. They are part of your life and you have to be a part of theirs.
D - edicated - Life is a journey, not a sprint. It requires sustained effort. Like anything in life, the more you put into it the more you will get out of it. Make it a priority and it will be one.
With that said, my dad has always been my best friend and I am going to do whatever it takes to be my son’s best friend. May God Bless all the fathers. This world needs Fathers. So lets all do our part.
Hopefully, by now, you are at least challenging what your belief was before. All this is the foundation for the strategies we will be talking about next month. If I haven’t proved it yet. If my overwhelming passion about this still didn’t make you feel it. If I have done a horrible job explaining and convincing you that engagement is the new promised land. Then today my goal will be to give you the final nail. Then in my next post, I am bringing the hammer which will nail it down for you. I feel it is my job to shout to the world and to push and challenge you to exploring further how you can engage your clients & employees and get greater results.
American Idol OWNS TV! It is the most popular show on TV today and has been for many years. I know dozens of people who not only watch the show, but are obsessed with it. Their Tuesday’s and Wednesdays are always booked. They live and die by what happens each week. They watch and read as much as they can. They spend an hour or two voting each week. The amazing thing is the wide range of watcher segments. It goes from teenage to retired. It is more than just a singing competition… It is a National and probably Global obsession. I hope this case study can bring the elements of engagement together for you.
In our building of our house, measurement is the roof.
I have a 4 year old son. I will be working on my laptop and he will come up to me and ask me to put batteries in a car or train and I will automatically respond… OK. He will put his hands on my face and turn it so I am looking him eye to eye. I know you are not listening to me. What he means is NOW!!!
It is all starts with intention. We all know when someone is being sincere and if it is coming from the heart. We feel it, it is experential. You know when someone is being completely open or if they are hiding something. Are you sending mixed messages, or are you really open or do you just play one on TV. We all have BS radar. We can smell it a mile a way. We can put those walls up faster than a dog at dinnertime. Buyers are more educated than ever before. We all laugh when we hear those stupid “pick-up” lines. Followed by: “Are you Serious”, “Are you Kidding” or “Is this a Joke”, or my favorite “Am I being Punk’d”.
In our building of our house, performance is the furnace. It is the heat…the action. Engagement is the ignition to performance. – Execution. Performance is anything worthy of your attention. We all want to be part of something bigger.
In our building of our house, appreciation is the artwork & pictures we display.
In our house we are building, connection is the furniture we put in the house.


