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DAD - Most Important 3 Letter Word

I wanted to give a shout out to all the Dad’s out there.  Happy Daddy’s Day (as we refer to it here at our household).

Being a Dad to me is the greatest thing and I am sure all the dads out there would agree.  I have a son, who is now 4 1/2 years old.  There was a bond between us the day I knew it was a boy.  I cried like a baby.  I am the IV, and knowing that I was going to have Charles Hudson Rothschild V changed my world.

One of my favorite parts of being a dad is the moment I walk in the door from being out.  No matter what kind of day I have had, he can change it in an instant.  The pure excitement he has when he hears me shut the door. I hear the scampering of feet across the wood floor, and the smile on his face when he comes to greet me with a big hug and kiss.   EVERY TIME, no matter what. 

I am very blessed.  I am a huge sports lover and my son is following suit.   He loves quality time with his dad.  He just wants to do it to be with his dad.   He will come up to me and tell me he needs some “daddy time”.    A lot of people think if they can just buy their kids things  and that captures parenting.  To me, there is a big difference in buying a ball and PLAYING ball.   As a former golf professional, I only play a couple of times a year right now and people always ask me why I dont play more.  I respond ” I would rather be a good dad, than golfer”. 

What is really going to be great, is if Hudson loves golf.  We go to the golf course all the time and I watch him hit balls.  He crushes the ball.  His favorite part is trying to hit it in the sand.  He considers that accomplishment.  I am a year a two away from us doing it together.  I promised myself, I would not push him into any sport though.  I would introduce him to all of them and let him pick which one he liked best and I would love it too.  He really likes all sports right now, basketball, baseball, golf & soccer.  I have coached him in all of them and really got as much enjoyment as he seems to have.

I just want to challenge all the dads out there to:  

D - evoted  - Let your kids know there is NOTHING more important than them.  I heard some great advice from a friend.  When you put something on family calendar, it cant be changed.  All other appt’s are changeable.  Nothing can come before them.  That is a challenge for me as well, because I am internally driven and something I work on all the time.  So keep that top of mind. 

A- ctive - As I said, get involved.  PARTICIPATE.  Whatever there interest is, make that your interest to.  Most men are kids anyway.  Get out there and play in the mud, wrestle with them, play ball with them, play games, take a walk.  Anything.  This one is my favorite.  They are part of your life and you have to be a part of theirs.

D - edicated - Life is a journey, not a sprint.  It requires sustained effort.  Like anything in life, the more you put into it the more you will get out of it.  Make it a priority and it will be one.

With that said, my dad has always been my best friend and I am going to do whatever it takes to be my son’s best friend.  May God Bless all the fathers.  This world needs Fathers.  So lets all do our part.

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Published in: Engagement | on June 21st, 2009 | No Comments »

The Pioneer Of Engagement

After reading my thoughts on this subject for this past month, you may not agree.  That is why I brought with me the hammer to nail down the final nail.   If you have spoken to me in the past few months, then there is a really good chance you have heard me talk about him already.  I am not sure he ever uses the word “engagement”, but everything he talks about might as well be.

I want to introduce you to the Godfather of this (& My) Revolution…

He talks about being “remarkable” and “permission marketing” which is really the “new marketing”.    The only thing I wish is that I had heard him TEN years ago when he started talking about this.  He is my inspiration and has sent me on this journey.  In the reinevention of myself in 2009, he will have one of the greatest impacts of my thinking..  He has written 10 books or so and I have read more than half of them THIS YEAR.  I am a memeber of  his online communities.  He has written Purple Cow, Meatball Sundae, Permission Marketing, Tribes and many others.  I read his blog everyday.  I cant wait to see what he has to say.

The Man, The Myth, The Legend & Man of The Hour…

His name is Seth Godin.  Check him out at www.sethgodin.com If you have not heard of him or read any of his books… THEN GET STARTED NOW!!!!   You will be better off for it.  That will give you a great foundation, and he will get you started in the right direction and he will literally get you more than half way there by himself.  If you get nothing else from me…then I hope this introduction makes it worth it for you.     Listen to this.


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However, he is only one of many that helped shape my new thinking.  I will be sharing and talking about many more. Now we have the foundation of engagement, I want to talk about other topic areas; Strategic Tactics of New Marketing, Social Media, Leadership, Branding, Communication, Innovation, and any suggestions of topics you would like to include.  My goal is to continue to add value,  inspire & challenge you.



Tell me your thoughts about Seth?  Did it challenge you to open your mind?  Will you buy one of his books?  Will you join me on this journey?

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Published in: Engagement | on April 30th, 2009 | 2 Comments »

Still Not Drinking The Engagement Kool-Aid

dont-forget-ronaldo-taveira1Hopefully, by now, you are at least challenging what your belief was before.  All this is the foundation for the strategies we will be talking about next month.  If I haven’t proved it yet. If my overwhelming passion about this still didn’t make you feel it.  If I have done a horrible job explaining and convincing you that engagement is the new promised land.   Then today my goal will be to give you the final nail. Then in my next post, I am bringing the hammer which will nail it down for you.   I feel it is my job to shout to the world and to push and challenge you  to exploring further how you can engage your clients & employees and get greater results.

Feel free to add your comments at the bottom of this article on what’s worked for you. It’s a great way to make a good impression and meet new contacts.

Everything Pointed Me Back To Engagement…

I have done hundreds and hundreds of hours of research (my wife will try to make you believe it is thousands).  I have read, studied and spoke to some great pioneers in fields of branding, thought leadership, social media, permission marketing, inbound marketing and “new marketing”.    No matter who I was talking to or reading…Everything just brought me back to engagement.  WHY???  Because that is the ULTIMATE GOAL and END RESULT of all of the fields I mentioned.  They are all tactics or ways to engage your audience.  After all of my research, it came down to these basic fundamentals. (click on link below for previous post)

1.  Caring & Sharing

2.  Involvement

3.  Understanding

4.  Connection

5.  Appreciation

6.  Performance

7. Genuine, Authentic & Transparent

8. Communication, Collaboration & Actively Listening

9. Measurement & Feedback

Hopefully you see how important the foundation for engagement is for the survival of your company in the years to come.  More importantly is you see the risks of ignoring it, putting it on the backburner or just not putting the adequate resources to it are just too high.

Tell me your thoughts on engagement?  Is it the real deal?  Can it change the direction of your company?

(PS Dont forget, I have a big surprise in my next post which is the hammer that will drive down this last nail)

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Published in: Engagement | on April 29th, 2009 | No Comments »

What Can American Idol Teach Us About Engagement

american-idol-logojpg2American Idol OWNS TV!   It is the most popular show on TV today and has been for many years.  I know dozens of people who not only watch the show, but are obsessed with it.  Their Tuesday’s and Wednesdays are always booked.  They live and die by what happens each week.  They watch and read as much as they can.  They spend an hour or two voting each week.  The amazing thing is the wide range of watcher segments.  It goes from teenage to retired.  It is more than just a singing competition… It is a National and probably Global obsession.  I hope this case study can bring the elements of engagement together for you.

What Makes American Idol The Top Rated Show…

American Idol encompasses engagement.  That is why the show is a continuous hit.  When you combine all the core elements of engagement and add in the chance for viewers to particpate in the show and really involving them and making them feel a part of it by allowing them to vote.   It is a winning combination.  I feel if the judges picked who stayed and who went, it would not be as widely successful and why it has dwarfed Survivor, Road Rules, Big Brother and others.

American Idol Uses Several Engagement Strategies… Yesterday, I mentioned how American Idol invited feedback from the judges and this gets the audience engaged.  It is LIVE.  There is no editing.  It is real time feedback.  The judges are put on the spot to offer genuine, authentic, and transparent observations about the performances.  It makes people choose sides.  They agree with the judges or they don’t.

It Creates deep connections and associations with the viewers… All of the performers are also genuine & authentic.  They talk about them so you feel like you really know them.  A big difference from dancing with the stars.  They take you behind the scenes and show the towns excitement for them and what it took for them to get where they are.  Not only do the viewers connect and identify with each participant, they connect with other viewers.  The have created an American Idol community with chat rooms, forums to talk about the show.  Up to date info.  This makes it spread horizontally.
American Idol Gets It… People spend hours not just watching the show, but actually taking their most greatest asset, time, to vote.  That participatory involvement is crucial.  It takes the viewer from a bistandard to the action oriented verb.  No longer a viewer, but a RAVING FAN!!!  I expect in the not to distant future we will see Twitter or another instant messaging tool enabled on the show more engaging than texting brought to the limelight.  Constant feeds, instant engagement on the TV or online.  That will take it to another level.

What Corporations & Businesses Can Learn From American Idol… Obviously what this whole platform is about.  Engage your audience.  Make it a two way stream.  One where participation is not only welcomed, but expected.  Determine ways that will have action, and determine a call to action.  Make it part of the strategy and not just an after thought.  Encourage Engagement.  Make people choose sides.  Take polls and have clients and employees part of the decision making process.  Make them feel they have a part in the success.  That their opinion matters and they can add value.  This will draw not only experiences, but form a closer identity, connection and association with your company & brand.

What engaging strategies are you using?  What ways can you involve your audience?  What ways can you encourage engagement?

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Published in: Engagement | on April 28th, 2009 | 1 Comment »

Engagement Invites Feedback

feedback-dominik-gwarekIn our building of our house, measurement is the roof. We all want feedback. It is natural. We want it whether it is good or bad.

My wife loves American Idol. I am not really a fan, but have watched the show with her a couple of times. The fans vote to see who will continue on, but they have this panel of judges who critique the performance. From what I can tell the judges have no power on who moves on but everyone anxiously sits on the edge of their seats and awaits for the judges reactions to the performance like it means something. Paula Abdul typically tries to be overly nice and give positive critiques, but you have this one guy named Simon. You either love him or hate him. To get him to give you anything positive you REALLY have to EARN it because if he says something nice it is a rare feat.

Feel free to add your own comments at the bottom of this article on what’s worked for you.  It is a great way to make a good impression and meet new contacts.

We all want feedback…

We want some indication of where we are and how we are doing. We want to keep our finger on the pulse. See if we are alive or dead…

Feedback can be used for reinforcement and continuous improvement…

A company wants feedback from its customers and employees want feedback from its supervisors.  They want confirmation or be able to take corrective measures. The worst scenario is not knowing either way.  That leaves you status quo.  There is no such thing as staying the same.  You are either getting better or worse.  If you are not getting better than your competition is closing that gap, which is in turn making you worse.

Tiger Woods Relentless Pursuit of Perfection…

I just had lunch with Hank Haney, who is Tiger Woods golf coach and he told a story about how all of these players were saying they were working to be the number one player in the world.  After reading one of the articles, Tiger looked at Hank and said… “Do they not think I am going to get any better?”…   Hank went on to say… the only thing Tiger concentrates on is getting better.  He said he never has once heard him mention breaking any record or making any certain amount of money.  If he continues to improve, the other things will take care of themselves.  That is why Tiger is the best.

How do you utilize feedback from your clients and employees?  Share how feedback positively or negatively has helped you?

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Published in: Engagement | on April 27th, 2009 | 1 Comment »

Engagement Fosters Communication, Collaboration & Active Listening

hudson-daddyI have a 4 year old son.  I will be working on my laptop and he will come up to me and ask me to put batteries in a car or train and I will automatically respond… OK.  He will put his hands on my face and turn it so I am looking him eye to eye.  I know you are not listening to me.  What he means is NOW!!!

Are All Women Right??? My wife and most any woman will call it “selective” hearing.  Men are famous for being told they hear only what they want to hear. Companies are just as guilty.  They hear what they want to hear.  Their perception is their reality.  Unfortunately, that is the quickest way to cut your own throat.  The bad news is they do it to themselves.  Active listening is participatory.  It is a two way dialogue.  It lends itself to engagement.  What do you know…

Watch Out, I Am About to Get on My Soapbox… If there is a magic bullet in the world, it would be communication.  That could probably solve and prevent most World Wars, National Issues, Divorces, and any other disengagement. Communication starts with active listening. I think most would agree that most companies have silos.  Every division, every dept, every team is on its own island.  I can’t wait to start talking about startegies to fix all this.  We are just identifing the issues.  Think about a perfect world… where everyone in the company feels wanted, they exchange information freely. They are collaborating and feeling like they are part of a team they actually believe in.  They are connected to one another, they believe in one another.  They feel they are part of something bigger, a tight knit community….

What ways can you create open communiation, collaboration & active listening?  What would need to happen for that to take place at your office?

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Published in: Engagement | on April 24th, 2009 | 3 Comments »

Engagement is Genuine, Authentic & Transparent

transparent-mixed-message-loretta-humbleIt is all starts with intention.  We all know when someone is being sincere and if it is coming from the heart.  We feel it, it is experential.  You know when someone is being completely open or if they are hiding something.  Are you sending mixed messages, or are you really open or do you just play one on TV.  We all have BS radar.  We can smell it a mile a way.  We can put those walls up faster than a dog at dinnertime.  Buyers are more educated than ever before.  We all laugh when we hear those stupid “pick-up” lines.  Followed by: “Are you Serious”, “Are you Kidding” or “Is this a Joke”, or my favorite “Am I being Punk’d”.   

Social Media’s Greatest Asset is that it is Genuine, Authentic and Transparent…        It is inherent in its nature.  I think bigger companies have a harder time grasping this concept.  If we are doing this, how are we going to push our product?  Who is actually going to be doing this?  What is the highest level we will ”allow” to be “open”?  What dept does this fall under?  If you start using engaging strategies to push your product, I believe it will fail miserable.  I know from my own experience, if I am reading something and it looks like an advertisement, it sounds like an advertisement and IS an advertisement, it turns me off in a nano second.  You hear an ‘ugh”…  Almost like, I can’t believe I fell for it or maybe it really is, they don’t get it, I can’t believe they would try to sell me. 

Fatherly Advice…   My dad always preached to me, if you can genuinely fill a persons need, you dont have to sell them…because they will want to buy.  Your goal needs to be openness…create followers…which will eventually lead to raving fans.  Bigger is not always better. It is better to have 1000 die hard fans than 10,000 people who admire you but would leave you the second they think they see a better offering or a less expensive substitute.   

What ways can you be more genuine, authentic & transparent?

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Published in: Engagement | on April 22nd, 2009 | No Comments »

Engagement Ignites Performance

ignite-flame-pierre-amerlynck2In our building of our house, performance is the furnace.  It is the heat…the action.  Engagement is the ignition to performance.  – Execution.  Performance is anything worthy of your attention.  We all want to be part of something bigger.

Feel free to add your own comments at the bottom of this article on what’s worked for you.  It is a great way to make a good impression and meet new contacts.

If you want to recharge and create an atmosphere of energy, passion and performance…

Then start engaging clients and employees. Engagement is two way and on going.  It is like the Energizer bunny… that keeps going, and going and going…

When I am talking about performance…

I am not talking about A performance where you are sitting in an audience watching a play.  I am talking about participatory performance.  Where the audience and performers are blurred.  They are one.  Customers are active to the vendors that serve them. Employees are intertwined with upper management.

America is a results driven country…

Results are driven by performance.  Performance is about how well you execute.  If we are measured by our performances and results, then we need to make sure we put everything into driving the highest results & performances possible.

Engaged Employees Deliver Positive Customer Experiences…

Studies show that an engaged employee has higher productivity and an engaged customer buys more and is more loyal.  The main reason is they have a higher emotional identification with the company.  It makes it mission critical to engage by caring, sharing, involving, understanding, connecting, and appreciating your employees and customers.

That leads us to our next pillar of engagement…Genuinity, Authenticity & Transparency.

What ways are you igniting performance at your company with your customers and employees?

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Published in: Engagement | on April 20th, 2009 | 2 Comments »

Appreciation Is Where You Place Your Value

red-carpet-award-kostya-kisleykoIn our building of our house, appreciation is the artwork & pictures we display.  It shows our excitement and gratitude.  Your clients are why you are in business, so they are the lifeblood of your company and your company can only be as good as its employees.  I saw a staggering number that 80% of your clients and employees are unhappy.  That is shocking, yes…disturbing, absolutely …scary… HELLO!!!  Without customers you don’t have revenues and profits, without employees you don’t have anyone to service these customers.  Everyone likes a pat on the back.  Everyone likes to hear their own name.  The higher the performer, the more of a sponge they are for appreciation and recognition. 

Feel free to add your comments at the bottom of this article on what’s worked for you. It’s a great way to make a good impression and meet new contacts

Appreciation relates to the increase of value in an asset… 

Therefore, it is a sign of respect and honor.  It shows where you place your value or ultimately where you don’t. Appreciation can be turned on like a light switch and can take very little in cost and even effort.  It really starts from a change of attitude.  Let me give you an example.  If I handed you a baseball.  You would say great, thanks.   But then I tell you that baseball was the 755th homerun ball of Hank Aaron’s and it was worth a lot of money.  All of a sudden that ball has “placed” value on it.  The ball didn’t change.  It was the same ball I originally gave you, but how you perceived the ball changed. 

The whole concept of precious metals is built on this concept…

Think about it.  The first person who found gold in prehistoric times said, wow, look at this stuff.  People are going to want this and I am going to place a value  on this and I can trade people for food and things I want due to the demand of the product.  People have spilt blood over these precious metals and many of lives have been lost.   It is a color’d rock for crying out loud.  Diamonds are the same thing.  What if people didn’t want them and said these are just stupid rocks from the ground or if Chad Rothschild were ruler of the earth and said, these precious metals are now worthless, would people still want them (other than my wife)?  Just for decoration? Your employees and clients are the same…PRECIOUS!  The great news is all you have to do is “declare” them a value and then they are. Even better is you can do the same with your spouse.  Try that when you go home tonight and see the response.

What ways have you shown appreciation to your clients and employees?  Share your successes for us all to learn from.

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Published in: Engagement | on April 16th, 2009 | No Comments »

Engagement is About Creating Connections

connecting-hands-ronaldo-taveiraIn our house we are building, connection is the furniture we put in the house.  How and where it is placed tells a story, and where we will gather and how.  If you were in a room, you would naturally put the chairs facing each other and not back to back.  You would want to encourage connection and communication.  Most organizations have sofas back to back where everyone is on islands inhibiting connection.  Does that make sense…why would they do that? 

Feel free to add your comments at the bottom of this article on what’s worked for you. It’s a great way to make a good impression and meet new contacts.

Clients & Employees that are connected are passionate… 

Go to any College or Professional  Football game or College Basketball game and see this in action.  The sporting event is the “product”, yet the ticket holder which is the customer, will paint themselves in the “products” color and act all crazy supporting the “product”….RAVING FANS.  There are other examples.  Harley Davidson… people tattoo their logo on their bodies and are disciples of the brand.   I am making it my goal to get one of my clients or employees I manage to paint or tattoo my name on their bodies and show that same enthusiasm and passion for me and my services… Any Takers…J

There are several ways to create connections… 

One way is to do stewardship reviews.  Talk about where you are and where you want to be.  By talking about where you are, it creates understanding. By talking about the future, creates connections and commitment by engaging in the development process of what that will look like. The best example of that is during the courting phase of your significant other.  You are connecting with that person by sharing and dreaming of what the future will look like.  How you are going to handle certain situations, how many kids you are going to have, what type of house and community you want to live in….  The next step in the courting phase is ENGAGEMENT prior to the commitment of marriage.  It is not coincidence.  It is the process of how it draws the couple closer and ignites passion.  The other person on the other end needs to feel special, feel important, part of the success of the group and appreciated.  This leads us to our next topic of appreciation.

What ways are you creating connections?  Share your successes for everyone to learn.

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Published in: Engagement | on April 13th, 2009 | No Comments »