Consistency Is Key To Affinity Connection

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The Iron Man… no not the movie. The Real Iron Man. Cal Ripken Jr. was praised just for “showing up” everyday for work. He surpassed a 56 year old record when he played his 2,131st game on September 6, 1995 and played a total of 2,632 games in a row or 17 total seasons. That is not a destination, but a journey that was built over extended over time. A legacy of consistency.
A long term view, not a one hit wonder… Whether you are writing a special report, articles, monthly newsletter or blog posts they all require consistency. To feel connected people need consistent intervals of communication. So today lets look at it from how often.
People are routine by nature… One of our most popular products we sell is calendars. If I have one of my clients who give a yearly calendar away and one year they skip, I will get calls from there customers asking where their calendar is from that company.
I know when my son was very young, we had him on a very set schedule and routine. Even though he was too young to talk, when we tried to deviate from that routine, he would definitely let us know. If he ate at noon, he wanted to eat at noon. His nap was at 2 sharp.
Post on Consistent Schedule… For a blog at least once a week (would prefer 2-3) and a newsletter once a month. So if you plan to post 3 times a week, then you need to try to post at the same days and same time every week. I don’t think it is good to post one week and 4 the next. If you are doing a monthly newsletter, than make sure you set a date it goes out and stick to it.
Last thought… Consistent without true insight or value, is worthless. People would rather have random pure insight than consistent crap. So make sure you provide consistently HIGH VALUED info.
It reminds me when I was playing college golf and we heard over and over that practice makes perfect. This is absolutely not true because you can ingrain bad habits as well as you can good ones. So just practicing or in our world producing content is not enough. Only PERFECT practice makes perfect or only high value will produce high value.
It is a journey. A marathon. It requires sustained effort. Don’t be like a stopwatch… this is not something you can just start and stop when you want. Commit for the long haul. Til death do us part.


Does Size Matter… It is one of the biggest errors someone can make. Bigger is not always better. That goes against everything in American thinking. We want big. Big cars, big houses, big portions, big diamonds, big, big, big. It is the American way. However, in this arena, I feel it is important to go against our natural urges. Because our ego will want everyone to read, hear or watch what we have to say. This will not make it more successful though. In my opinion, I would rather have a thousand raving fans than ten thousand luke warm admirers. An admirer may respect you, but not necessary loyal. The first sign something perceived better comes along… they are gone. It could be lower price, a different or new attribute or something more trivial. So size is very subjective to me.
Hopefully, by now, you are at least challenging what your belief was before. All this is the foundation for the strategies we will be talking about next month. If I haven’t proved it yet. If my overwhelming passion about this still didn’t make you feel it. If I have done a horrible job explaining and convincing you that engagement is the new promised land. Then today my goal will be to give you the final nail. Then in my next post, I am bringing the hammer which will nail it down for you. I feel it is my job to shout to the world and to push and challenge you to exploring further how you can engage your clients & employees and get greater results.
American Idol OWNS TV! It is the most popular show on TV today and has been for many years. I know dozens of people who not only watch the show, but are obsessed with it. Their Tuesday’s and Wednesdays are always booked. They live and die by what happens each week. They watch and read as much as they can. They spend an hour or two voting each week. The amazing thing is the wide range of watcher segments. It goes from teenage to retired. It is more than just a singing competition… It is a National and probably Global obsession. I hope this case study can bring the elements of engagement together for you.
In our building of our house, measurement is the roof.
I have a 4 year old son. I will be working on my laptop and he will come up to me and ask me to put batteries in a car or train and I will automatically respond… OK. He will put his hands on my face and turn it so I am looking him eye to eye. I know you are not listening to me. What he means is NOW!!! 


