Social Media’s Third Foundational Truth - How Big & How Much
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Does Size Matter… It is one of the biggest errors someone can make. Bigger is not always better. That goes against everything in American thinking. We want big. Big cars, big houses, big portions, big diamonds, big, big, big. It is the American way. However, in this arena, I feel it is important to go against our natural urges. Because our ego will want everyone to read, hear or watch what we have to say. This will not make it more successful though. In my opinion, I would rather have a thousand raving fans than ten thousand luke warm admirers. An admirer may respect you, but not necessary loyal. The first sign something perceived better comes along… they are gone. It could be lower price, a different or new attribute or something more trivial. So size is very subjective to me.
An example of this could be a website. Number of visits and click through rates have always been key measures. They really don’t tell you anything. It doesn’t tell you if the attitude of the user was happy or not. If they like the brand or why they were there. Were they engaged? Were they researching or participating? Did they convert to a customer or lead? So determining the most important part still needs work… User Attitude & Behavior. A lot of drilling down needs to take place. Quality is more important than quantity.
Do Not Bite More Than You Can Chew… It is so easy to get swept up in the excitement that Social Media brings and builds. Social Media can be very daunting though. Who wants to just dip a finger in and get a nibble. Again the American way pokes its head out. We want to be master of all. We dive head first into every Social Media tool out there and become master of none.
Lets try taking small bites and grow organically. Lets list out all the different Social Media tools. Do research on each of them. Then prioritize each tool, set goals and determine the order in which you want to take on and tackle. We will discuss a few of the specific tools soon, but let me illustrate this point with an example.
I am a man of big ambitions. My wife is always having to reign me back in. This year, I decided I was going to tackle organizing the basement… In my “Tim The Tool Man Taylor” (from show Home Improvement), I went to Home Depot and bought every known organizing piece available. I had shelving systems, big clear containers with lids. You get the picture. Then I moved everything out of the basement and into the backyard. It looked more like a grave yard for stuff. Sanford & Sons theme song would of been playing at this funeral.
My wife came downstairs, and I wish you could of seen the look on her face. It was priceless. It was a look of disbelief, and SHOCK. She looked over at me. I was sitting in a chair, elbows on my knees and my hands pressed against my forehead. She knew my heart was in the right place, but my stomach was bigger than my mouth… She could tell I was overwhelmed and no clue how to start. In a soft & gentle voice, and a shaking of her head… her advice was to just take it room by room and she would help me get started. It turned into a team project. We got the first room done. We started getting momentum. We picked up pace and speed… Clean & organized basement.
So when you feel overwhelmed. Compartmentalize. Create buckets. Step by step. Dont take the next rung until you completed the one before it. Easier to fight a bunch of smaller battles than one big one.
What size is the perfect size? How big or how much is to much?

Hopefully, by now, you are at least challenging what your belief was before. All this is the foundation for the strategies we will be talking about next month. If I haven’t proved it yet. If my overwhelming passion about this still didn’t make you feel it. If I have done a horrible job explaining and convincing you that engagement is the new promised land. Then today my goal will be to give you the final nail. Then in my next post, I am bringing the hammer which will nail it down for you. I feel it is my job to shout to the world and to push and challenge you to exploring further how you can engage your clients & employees and get greater results.
American Idol OWNS TV! It is the most popular show on TV today and has been for many years. I know dozens of people who not only watch the show, but are obsessed with it. Their Tuesday’s and Wednesdays are always booked. They live and die by what happens each week. They watch and read as much as they can. They spend an hour or two voting each week. The amazing thing is the wide range of watcher segments. It goes from teenage to retired. It is more than just a singing competition… It is a National and probably Global obsession. I hope this case study can bring the elements of engagement together for you.
In our building of our house, measurement is the roof.
I have a 4 year old son. I will be working on my laptop and he will come up to me and ask me to put batteries in a car or train and I will automatically respond… OK. He will put his hands on my face and turn it so I am looking him eye to eye. I know you are not listening to me. What he means is NOW!!!
In our building of our house, performance is the furnace. It is the heat…the action. Engagement is the ignition to performance. – Execution. Performance is anything worthy of your attention. We all want to be part of something bigger.
In our building of our house, appreciation is the artwork & pictures we display.
In our house we are building, connection is the furniture we put in the house.
In our house we are building, understanding is the air filling the structure. It is like oxygen. It is the passions that drive us. If we don’t understand what drives our employees and clients, how can we expect to help and add value to them. It would make no more sense for your organization to speak a different language than your employees and clients. 


